Help

 

There is at least one person in this world who will call and ask for help when all they really want is to complain and have someone tell them they are right and this is justified and everyone else is causing them problems.

They do not know how to socialize except by hashing and rehashing everything that is wrong in their lives and the people they know.

And no matter how many times you ask them to keep their negativity to themselves they revert right back to their normal behavior.

They see themselves as cute and sweet and put upon by a world that is not up to their standards. They see no relationship between all their problems and themselves. 

They are victims.

Victims of their own negative thinking. 

In some ways maybe they are true narcissists who believe bad things come into their lives from all the bad situations and people they have to deal with.

Heaven forbid they ever listen to people or try to change anything. Even changing the smallest things in their life like food is beyond them. They live in a make-believe world they think they remember from the "good old days" or their childhood. They cannot learn anything new like using their computer or taking charge of their own financial situations. Everything must be done for them. Being helpless is a cultivated art. 

They imagine themselves helpers for the world and yet they despise most of the world unless it demonstrates a need for them to come in and do something. Doing for others must make them feel love and yet they do not do things with love. They do them just to get them done in the fastest way possible.

Beware of these people. They will always find a way to integrate their negativity into your life and then blame you for not being the kind of person they want you to be.