We aren't there yet

That shalt not.

Do not.

Any parent knows them are fightin' words! Words that tend to elicit just the opposite behavior in defiant teens.

Love thy neighbor as thyself.

Positive but very very difficult. It would require a mature, intelligent adult (or little children) to accomplish something like that, because neighbors come in all shapes, sizes, races, religions, genders and combinations of all the above.

So the negatives win -- for the time being.