Differences

 

We all have a process and it is so personal!

Everyone has steps they perceive as necessary when they are doing something.

I like to organize my life and for me that means minimizing. Down sizing. Finding a way to have the richest, most fulfilling life with the least amount of stuff. I don't feel the need to get anyone else's opinion about it. For me it is just instinctively the right thing to do.

For me.

My sister always wants a consensus. She needs everyone to tell her she's doing it right and she needs reasons for not doing it now, or later. She likes to accumulate stuff and she does it in the name of helping her kids, grandkids and great grandkids. It is such a part of her that she has filled a basement, a garage and even a storage unit for the past few years.

While I live in half of a one bedroom apartment, she lives in a two bedroom house with a double garage.

We both spend money. We both charge things. We both buy things for other people, but our reasoning and thoughts behind it all are totally different.