It's okay

It's okay to identify a problem and give it a name. If that helps you find a cure, or way to deal with it, I am all for it.

Just don't become the problem.

Don't identify yourself as one of them.

You are more than one set of setbacks.

Even if it is huge. Even if it is life threatening, or life destroying, don't allow one thing to define your whole life unless that one thing makes you feel good.

Find the things, or maybe even one thing, that does make your life better, that makes your life worth living and become that. Sometimes distraction is the only way.

It's okay to be honest and out spoken and vocal in every respect, but there is another big chunk of life out there beyond that.

Don't miss it.