Hierarchies

Money is important.

No one can deny that without money life is almost impossible. We need it for rent, food, medical care, clothing, education, transportation and the little niceties, like bedding, coffee pots, and towels, that make life tolerable.

Everyone also knows that the most important things in the world cannot be bought, but it's hard to believe that until the basics are there and -- until --

You lose one of those dearest things.

Not great Aunt Mabel's antique cameo, or Grandma's Victorian house, but Great Aunt Mabel and Grandma themselves.

People are the most perishable and important part of life. They nurture us, care for us, and fill our hearts when life everywhere else is insanely nightmarish.

A phone call from someone dear can be a lifeline. No matter what you say, or don't say.

A two line email can be more precious than a rare stamp.

And the mere presence of a loved one is never mere.