The find

It seems people are always talking about redefining themselves as if they are outdated rooms in some HGTV show.

Ideally no one does this.

Think about it. Redefining is really just relabeling something that is dressed up in different clothes when real change is far from that simple.

We aren't buildings that can be torn down and rebuilt, or gutted and redesigned.

We are real life, living, breathing works of art in progress.

Like clay we can be tweaked, or molded, fired or painted, but deep down inside we are the same sweet souls born into this world at the beginning of our time. If you want to find your potential, look at the young children all around you.

The little girl with an arm around her littler brother, shepherding him through the mall is the ideal. We all have that inside of us. That sweet, loving person we used to be is sitting quietly in our center point waiting to be rediscovered.

It takes a lot of courage to excavate that part of us, but I think it's worth the effort.