I wonder

I have always thought people are pretty much hardwired to be who they are, but as I watch two different sets of little girls turn four on Facebook, I wonder.

One set has already played a season of soccer and danced in their first dance recital.

Both express a young girl's love of fancy clothes and dancing.  Both like playing hard.  Both are very outgoing and happy.

One is following the more traditional role of teams and classes while the other is in a freer, slightly more diverse situation.

It will be interesting to see how such early training affects them.  Will one set be more likely to follow the crowd?  Will one tend to be more adventuresome?  Will one be more social, or happy, or deeper thinking?

Or will they just go their own separate and totally unique ways no matter what?  I know the parents are all very involved and doing what they think is the very best for their child.

It will be fun to watch them all grow up and see what happens.