Truth

Why do people lie about things that are, or are going to be, obvious?

I suppose I can see why lying about something that might change for the better, might feel right.

The fear that I will lose the respect of those I love, or set myself up for more failure is a powerful motivator, but why do otherwise intelligent wonderful people lie about things that will come out later?

Why lie about something that will not only shake the trust of those who love me, but perhaps even hurt them?

Most of the people who truly love me are capable of forgiving me if I can be honest and upfront from the get go.

But when they have to face the world and explain why they failed (because I failed them) it becomes even more hurtful.

I think it is better to have one good, solid, loving relationship built on trust than all the alluring facades built upon deceit.