Pollywogs and predicaments

I think the biggest mistake anyone can make when looking for a lasting relationship is to think it is possible to finagle one.

I can finagle an afternoon.  You might be able to finagle a few years, but in the long run it probably isn't worth it.

Trying to be lovable isn't what life is about.   I didn't believe that growing up.  I thought I had to turn myself into something that was desirable and worthy to be loved.

Consequently I found myself in a relationship where my partner felt the same way.

It took a long time for me to realize that everyone is worthy of being loved.

A pollywog will always grow up to be a frog.  It will never be a turtle, or a dolphin, or a bird.  It will never have short curly hair, or speak dog and although it will certainly be worthy of love, some kinds of love might surprise it.

Love at first bite can be deadly.