Judgement

Above board and open.  It is my chosen way.

That doesn't mean to be a tell all, or to air the family laundry in public.  It just means I am more comfortable being myself than I used to be.

Discretion is always the better part of valor.  If Auntie Matilda will be unhappy knowing that little Arnold plays with snakes, it's just better not to bring the subject up, but if he plays with fire, then, by all means, bring it to the forefront.

There are no hard and fast rules for things like this.  Do no harm comes about as close as I can think of.  Life is a judgement call from the word go.  The better my judgement, the better my world will be.