Tuesday, May 15, 2012

A map of my own


Sometimes I think life is just another story that I am writing. 

The more creative and innovative I am, the more unique it can be.  The secret seems to be never to write myself into a corner.

The choices I make really do matter.  A lot! 

I try to use common sense, but more than that I look at the people around me.  When I was younger I thought if I did what I’d learned as a child then all would be well.  Now I can see how ineffective and even hurtful a lot of those things were.  Being honest with myself is a big step towards finding happiness.

A reasonably intelligent person can fool a lot of people.  Other people, after all, want to believe the best about me.  Unfortunately fooling other people doesn’t change what really is.  If I overeat I still get fat.  If I don’t get enough sleep I am more likely to get sick and I never really perform at peak level.  If I enable people the good feeling only lasts until they crash again. 

What are those lines from Henley’s poem? “I am the master of my fate: I am the captain of my ship.” 

They are true you know.  No one can really sail my ship for me no matter who I am.  In the end only I can avoid the rocks or choose which ports I want to land in, because those places don’t always exist on other people’s maps.


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