It is not possible to live a life of peace and joy when someone is constantly focusing on the hopeless, the ugly, and the lost causes?
Drama mongers feast on bad news. They always have some tidbit to share that makes people feel bad, or tries to extract pity from them.
People like this are downers.
It does not matter how many ways anyone comes up with to solve their problems, they find a way to focus on them.
They always find a way back to what makes them unhappy and miserable. It is their goal in life to be pitiful and sad and needy.
They do not want a solution.
What would they do for excitement if no one was there to send them to the hospital, or threaten them, or give them a reason to share their story over and over and over to everyone around them?
These are sad people who grew up mistaking pity for love, so they never find true love and peace. They simply find people who feed their neediness and those people stay as long as they can bear it before they leave too.
If you find yourself telling the same sad story, year after year to person after person, maybe you should step back, ask yourself why and go to counseling.
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