Research thoughtfulness

Thoughtfulness is not an easy trait to cultivate.

Knowing what to do is the first hurdle. When to do something and when not to can involve both protocol and local customs.

Knowing when or where exceptions could, or should, be made is the next hurdle.

And finally, doing something because it is the right thing to do when it is not what I really want to do, is the biggest hurdle.

Being thoughtful is a sign of maturity, and maybe self-control.

Emily Post was obviously not one to give in to passions.