Monday, January 21, 2013
Nosy or curious
Curious or nosy?
One sounds possibly noble and even laudable. The other a little sordid.
I suppose it depends on the subject and motive.
If I am interested in my neighbor's private affairs because I want to gossip about them, that is nosy. If I am interested in my friend's research topic because I want to enrich myself intellectually, that is curious.
I remember reading about Agee snooping through the dresser of one of the families in his book Let Us Now Praise Famous Men and wondering two things. One: wouldn't I have been tempted to do the same thing. Two: was it simple intellectual curiosity that drove him to do things like that?
I am always interested in the details. If I write a book about it does that make it legitimately curious? If I don't, does it simply make me nosy?
I probably don't really want to know!
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