I cannot make other people do what I want.
I can decide what I will do.
In fact, I am responsible for both what I do and what I don’t do. Both of these things are powerful tools when used correctly.
It is having the courage to decide what is right and what is not that is hard. I can’t count on the world backing me up, or feeling good about everything. All I can do is make an educated, intelligent decision and move forward.
Sometimes love makes hard decisions and sometimes they work and sometimes they don’t, but I can tell you one thing: if something is not working you don’t keep doing it!
Everything takes time. Adjusting to new rules, new routines, new apartments, can be difficult for me, so I set a time that I will live with it and then reevaluate it again.
There will be times when something becomes obvious beyond a doubt and I have to change my mind early, but that has only happened once that I can think of.
In the long run life is better not only when there is method, but also perseverance in the madness.
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