For You

Everyone needs something they can feel proud of.

Pride may be a sin by some accounts, but when the world is populated by people who know how to criticize and tear people apart, there must be a counter move to build them back up.

Pride may not be the word you want to use, but it is the word I use to mean something that makes me feel good about myself.

I think it can be anything, but it's better if it is not something too transitory like looks or clothing, those are so fragile and tenuous that they are almost guaranteed to be things that will turn around and let their owner down.

It might be as simple as a sweet smile, or helpful nature, and it might be as grand as a knack for peace negotiations. It only matters that I take ownership of it and nurture it.

It is the best gift anyone can give another, a recognition of this part of them that is so special and life affirming.