Stop Stressing

How do I tell someone else not to do what I do myself?

My daughter-in-law is so worried about me moving into the apartment in their house that she is suffering major ulcer attacks and no amount of trying to soothe her fears on my part really helps. I really mean it when I say we will deal with it all when I get there, even as I am very appreciative of all the work they are doing now.

I suppose the lesson is for me to stop stressing over this move too. I will do what I can do to make it work and the rest is up to God and other people. Even as I say it, my stomach is knotting up. So far nothing has gone as I planned, but so far, it is still okay, so that is pretty good.

Money for the move and the gas are primary concerns for me, so getting as much of my deposit back as I can is imperative, but I cannot clean when I cannot see the floor for boxes, so I need to just let it go.