Theory vs reality

It is one thing to believe something in theory, but the practice of it becomes increasingly difficult when it actually comes to pass.

In theory we should all be allowed to end our days the way we choose.

But when our lifestyle affects other people it matters.

No one should be driving a car if they fall asleep, or have dizzy spells. A car is a powerful lethal weapon if it spins out of control and hits someone.

Also, living with other people requires that everyone in the house not endanger the others. Violent fits, smoking, being unsafe in the kitchen or garage is not an option.

Beyond that I believe people should have the right to refuse medical treatment and be allowed to live in their own home as long as they have the cognitive ability to insist upon it.

The quality of life is more important than our desire to keep loved ones alive and safe.

That doesn't mean people won't have to make changes, or compromises. Visiting nurses, spending time at senior citizen centers, and utilizing other services may become necessary, because it is also important that caretakers have peace of mind and a life of their own too.

Reality seldom fits as painlessly and conveniently into plans as theories.